Relationship Design Labs is for individuals and couples who are ready to stop guessing.
If you’ve tried talking it out, reading the books, or even therapy and still feel like you’re
missing a crucial piece of the puzzle, Human Design gives you a clear map of how your energy
actually wants to move — together and apart.
See how your systems actually work
Human Design gives you a map of how your energy system is wired to process information, make decisions,
and interact with other people. A single chart shows how one nervous system tends to operate under pressure;
a connection chart shows what happens when two different nervous systems share a field together. Instead of
guessing at “chemistry” or relying only on personality labels, we can see clear, repeatable patterns in how
two people amplify, stabilize, or challenge one another.
Start with a solid foundation
The most effective starting point is an individual foundation reading: understanding your own Type, Strategy,
Authority, Profile, and centers before focusing on the relationship. That gives you a clear decision-making
process, awareness of where you’re most sensitive to other people’s energy, and a baseline for what “healthy”
actually feels like in your own system.
Map the relationship mechanics
Relationship analysis looks at the composite chart — where one person’s strength can accidentally override
the other, where there is natural ease and mutual support, and where tension is built into the design but
can be navigated consciously. The goal isn’t to “fix” anyone, but to give you a realistic mechanical picture
of what’s happening between you so you can make informed decisions and agreements.
Why work with a trained analyst?
A chart image or automated report can’t synthesize your design the way a trained analyst can. IHDS-trained
professionals are educated in how to read the mechanics correctly, apply them to real life, and respect the
limits of what Human Design can and cannot claim. In practice, that means you’re not getting generic advice,
but a precise description of your configuration and relationship dynamics, framed in terms of mechanics rather
than judgment or fantasy.
If you’re scientifically minded or skeptical of mystical language, this kind of structurally accurate reading
gives you a way to explore relationship dynamics without abandoning logic or critical thinking.
Before we ever meet, I spend dedicated time studying and contemplating your charts (and your partner’s, when relevant)
so that our session can focus on synthesis, strategy, and your real questions—not just reading the surface of a diagram.